Offense Charting:
Identification
of Offenses
Before behavior can be changed, it must be identified
The Offense
Chart -- A tool for monitoring change, and identifying blockages to love
When all the past offenses have been documented, they can be forgotten, and
remembered when there is an appropriate time and opportunity for confrontation
and change
Rapport -- Connecting
on the level of Head and Heart
Without rapport, there is no connection, and there
is no compassion and mercy
Confrontation
-- Sharing my sense of hurt, trusting there will be healing
Confrontation should be an experience of humility and sharing
Change -- Learning new behaviors
Theory of Categorization of Personality
Last modified, 11/25/2001